He says: Scout is the kind of daughter that most modern fathers hope to raise. She's bright, witty, and thinks independently; she's a reader and a thinker; she doesn't put up much with boys' guff; she shows empathy for others beyond her years.
In fact, she reminds me a lot of my own daughter! Aren't I lucky! :)
In fact, she reminds me a lot of my own daughter! Aren't I lucky! :)
She says: She's also the kind of daughter us modern mothers would like to raise. So, the question that comes to my mind is how? How has Atticus achieved this success? Is it in his treating his children almost as equals such as with his, "last-will-and-testament-diction", or the fact that he views everyone as equals and as a result his children have grown and learned from his example?
Or, has Scout's independence and strength come about as a necessary coping mechanism. In our initial introduction to Scout we are made painfully aware that the only female influence in her life is that of their house keeper Calpurnia. Would Scout be different if her mother were still a part of her life? Better? Worse? Is she seeking that maternal influence from Miss Maudie when she finds refuge with her as the boys grow closer and she gets shouldered out of their trio?
Or, has Scout's independence and strength come about as a necessary coping mechanism. In our initial introduction to Scout we are made painfully aware that the only female influence in her life is that of their house keeper Calpurnia. Would Scout be different if her mother were still a part of her life? Better? Worse? Is she seeking that maternal influence from Miss Maudie when she finds refuge with her as the boys grow closer and she gets shouldered out of their trio?
He says: Scout, I think you hit the nail on the head! Parenting by example is one of my soap-box topics! As a parent, of course you must tell your children what's right and what's wrong. But my scientifically undocumented opinion is that an example is worth a thousand words. Or, to say it a different way: monkey see--monkey do!! :)
It is sad that Scout had to grow up without a mother. But, as you point out, she does have some female role-models. As a result, she seems to have developed competence in both the male and female sides of life. She's both Yin and Yang. Probably not adequate compensation for being mother-less, but it makes her a powerful character!
It is sad that Scout had to grow up without a mother. But, as you point out, she does have some female role-models. As a result, she seems to have developed competence in both the male and female sides of life. She's both Yin and Yang. Probably not adequate compensation for being mother-less, but it makes her a powerful character!
She says: We should all be so lucky as to have more *Scouts* in our lives.